What's In Our Delayed Ejaculation
There are three main elements.
The first is a set of powerful relaxation and "mind
control" techniques which will allow you to reprogram your feelings
and beliefs around
You can, for example, reduce your anxiety and increase your sexual
self-confidence to get a completely new perception of yourself as a
sexual being about how you feel sexually.
I find that many of the men I meet who have delays in ejaculating
are quite anxious about sex, so the treatment program includes a
whole section of techniques aimed at reducing anxiety and increasing
The second element of the program is a series of techniques
which you can use to easily increase the level of your sexual arousal.
This is important because a lot of men who have difficulty
ejaculating during intercourse are not very aroused – even though they
usually have a long-lasting erection. (Find out why in the program.)
Since low sexual arousal seems to be a problem for many men with
delayed ejaculation, techniques to increase arousal go a long way
towards overcoming ejaculatory difficulties.
And because low sexual arousal can be the product of many things,
ranging from low testosterone levels to a sense of being
"disconnected" from your own sexuality and sexual desires, I discuss
each of the causes of slow or late ejaculation and explain what you
can do about them.
This is particularly true where you have some relationship issues
that are underlying your difficulties in achieving orgasm.
One of the by-products of this program is that you'll
probably end up with a much better relationship as well as
enjoying sex to the full.
The third element is one of sexual technique.
Good sexual techniques helps self-confidence.
Over the years I've realized that a lot of men who cannot ejaculate
"normally" during sex don't really have good sexual techniques.
Some of them need information about different aspects of sex with a
woman. This can help enormously in increasing confidence,
enjoying sex, and pleasuring your partner. So that's all in the
treatment program too.
Together all of
these things add up to a way of reaching orgasm and ejaculating within
a few minutes of penetration!
(Quite a change from sex that lasts an hour, at the end of which
both partners are frustrated, irritable and exhausted!)
There's actually a lot more than this in the delayed ejaculation
program, but for now it's probably enough to simply say that a
- different techniques for making love - skills and knowledge
- ways to make your mental and emotional attitude to sex much more
- behavioral change techniques to ensure confidence during
- sex therapy techniques to ensure you enjoy yourself when you're
with a partner
relaxation to increase confidence and lower anxiety
- and intimacy exercises to bond more closely and comfortably with
With great sex.... anything is
All mean you should be able to enjoy sex with normal
ejaculation in only a few weeks.
And the investment of time that you need to achieve this
result is probably between one and two hours a week. And I'm available
to support you by e-mail throughout the program.
It's always important to remember that a cure for delayed
ejaculation is entirely possible, provided you're committed to finding
the right solution for you.
It's often easier, or at least it seems that way, to go on
sexual problems and not enjoying intercourse very much, just
because you don't know where to start looking for a solution, or the
effort involved in finding a solution seems so great.
Which is why my treatment program for delayed ejaculation really
does have so many advantages for the men in this situation – I've
outlined just about every cause of this particular problem, and
offered solutions for every one of them.
I will admit that one of the questions I'm often asked is whether
or not a partner is necessary to make best use of the treatment
program, and my answer is that yes, unfortunately, it certainly helps.
I say unfortunately, because there are plenty of men out there with
delayed ejaculation who are currently not in relationship want to
achieve a solution.
Even so, what I know is that there is plenty of information in the
program that can be helpful in explaining how this is developed, and
how you might be able to get rid of it.
I've also known men who have worked with Tantric sex therapists,
and sex surrogates, to achieve a successful outcome – in many ways
there are advantages to this approach, rather than working with your
partner, because the absence of the emotional aspect of a partnered
relationship allows a rapid and effective solution.
And there's no denying that very often, there is an emotional
component to a man's inability to ejaculate during intercourse.
This is because such a sexual dysfunction can be a sign of anxiety,
or resentment, or even anger about a man's partner and the emotional
dynamic between them.
You will find plenty of information on this website which should
help you understand how this can play out, or how it may be playing
out in your life.