Delayed Ejaculation

Powerful solutions for men who can't reach orgasm or ejaculate during sex or masturbation

If you have delayed ejaculation, you know how destructive it can be to your relationships, your self-esteem, your sense of masculinity and your ability to make love as you'd like to. Well, the simple fact is that delayed ejaculation can be cured easily, simply and quickly at home...and this website will show you how. Read on for more details about how you can solve your delayed ejaculation problem and ejaculate normally during sex or masturbation.

My name is Rod Phillips. I've worked extensively with men who have sexual problems of one sort or another. I know that the majority of men who want a cure for delayed ejaculation want to get it in private, not from a doctor or sexual therapist.......and here, on the internet, available to you right now, you have access to an effective cure which you can use at home to beat delayed ejaculation. But let's begin at the beginning....

The first thing that might surprise you about delayed ejaculation is that it's a common problem. We know that at any time, more than one man in twelve will be experiencing delayed ejaculation! This means that millions of men around the world have difficulty reaching orgasm or ejaculating during sex - for example, about 8 million men in the USA alone will have problems reaching orgasm during sex. And very few of these men - less than one in a hundred - will seek help for delayed ejaculation.

In a way, that's not surprising. Not being able to ejaculate during sex (or masturbation), or only being able to ejaculate occasionally, or with great difficulty, seems like a strange problem, especially when so many men have major problems holding back their ejaculation! So let's think about sex for a minute. We all hear and read many things about the way men are supposed to make love: we're expected to initiate and lead during sex, we're supposed to know how to make sex good for both ourselves and our partners, we're expected to hold back on our own pleasure and delay our ejaculation until our partner is satisfied, and it's generally assumed we'll take responsibility for sexual intercourse......but what a burden this puts on us!

With all those expectations, no wonder some of us find it difficult to surrender to the pleasure of sex and allow ourselves to reach orgasm and ejaculate when we wish!

Delayed Ejaculation - A Common Sexual Problem Among Men

Even so, delayed ejaculation is not very well known and it's certainly not received much attention, despite the misery it can cause. If you're a man with delayed ejaculation, and you can't reach orgasm easily during sex, or you simply cannot ejaculate during sex at all, you may well believe there is something wrong with you. And you probably feel a little bit ashamed, or angry, or anxious about what's going on. You know delayed ejaculation isn't normal, but you probably don't know what to do about it - and you may not even know there's a cure for this relatively common condition.

What's more, if your partner has started to express her feelings about your delayed orgasm, you're probably feeling a lot worse than you were - especially if she's accusing you of not being attracted to her. This lack of understanding is completely unfair - men with delayed ejaculation are among the most conscientious of lovers, and really care about the fact that they cannot give their partner the satisfaction - the orgasm - she craves during sex.

So, here's the third most common problem in the bedroom for men, and it's hardly mentioned, little known, and causes huge amounts of worry! So the first thing to emphasize is that if you have delayed ejaculation, whether during sex, or during masturbation, no matter what form it takes - you are normal. Yes, normal. Delayed ejaculation isn't some mysterious disease, something to be ashamed about, some dreadful condition which means you'll never have normal sex. Far from it.

In fact, you can deal with delayed ejaculation at home, in privacy, with your partner, or even without a partner, and you can quickly and easily reach orgasm during sex and enjoy normal ejaculations with your partner. I can say that with confidence, because I've shown hundreds of men how to overcome delayed ejaculation and enjoy sex to the full - complete with normal ejaculations (which means being able to choose when to ejaculate during sex). Imagine being able to choose when you ejaculate during sex.....no matter how mysterious that may look to you right now, you read it right! Imagine the cries of delight from you and your partner as you enjoy massive orgasms during your lovemaking.....that's the sound of sex as it should be!

You can develop the ability to ejaculate when you choose during sex. You can penetrate your partner with pleasure, certain that she will get her orgasm and that she will be satisfied - and you can actually choose when to ejaculate! Want to know the best bit? Overcoming delayed ejaculation is not only easy and simple, it's also a fairly quick process. And this website will show you exactly how to do it.

But What Causes Delayed Ejaculation?

But let's back up a bit here before we go any further. If you're experiencing delayed ejaculation, you're probably wondering why it happens, and if you can ever really solve the problem. First, delayed ejaculation happens for several reasons, some of which we can look at here. (Every single cause of delayed ejaculation is explained in detail in the members' area of this website.) To start with, not ejaculating during sex can be a learned pattern of behavior. If you have a bad sexual experience at some point - whatever that may be, perhaps losing your erection, or having some kind of humiliating or embarrassing experience - then anxiety and fear can take over next time you have sex and inhibit your ejaculatory response to sexual arousal. And when that's happened once, it can happen again and again, and before you know it - there's not an ejaculation in sight! But happily, this sort of delayed ejaculation is easily overcome.

Another cause: some men learn to masturbate quickly and in secret when they are teenagers, usually because they can't get privacy or time to masturbate without fear of someone seeing them or intruding on them while they take pleasure in this way. In situations like this, masturbation can become quick and secretive, sometimes done without self-touch - like masturbating by thrusting one's penis against the mattress in bed. This kind of harsh masturbation technique makes the body adapt; it takes much more force and pressure to get to the point of ejaculation than it does with more gentle forms of masturbation. But that's what he gets used to.

Later, when a man has sex, the sensations of intercourse are nowhere near strong enough to produce the stimulation he needs to ejaculate. Only very hard and / or prolonged stimulation will lead to ejaculation - something that doesn't happen during normal sexual intercourse. But once again, the simple and effective techniques described in the members' area of the site will work by quickly reducing the level of stimulation you need to reach the point of ejaculation. These body-retraining techniques are all described in detail in the members' area of this website.

Most men with delayed ejaculation get an erection very quickly - and it's often a long-lasting, hard erection. Yet although they appear to be aroused and sexually excited, appearances can be deceptive. Believe it or not, this erection, no matter how long-lasting, does not necessarily mean that you're aroused enough to enjoy intercourse to the point of ejaculation. That may seem hard to believe. After all, doesn't an erection mean a man is ready, willing and able to have sex? Oddly, no.....while you can make love with an erection, you have to be sufficiently aroused in both mind and body to reach the point of ejaculation. If you're experiencing delayed ejaculation, the chances are that you need some simple techniques to increase your sexual excitement, to raise your level of sexual arousal, so that you find sex more exciting. That way, you can gradually develop more and more arousal as sex goes on, and at a certain point you'll be aroused enough to ejaculate easily - and very enjoyably!

Don't worry if this is a bit hard to understand right now - it's all explained in detail on the website. And of course, and perhaps more importantly, the solutions to these problems are explained in detail. For example, if you're not aroused enough, how do you become more aroused during sex? Well, there are lots of techniques and tricks you can use to develop high sexual arousal, techniques which will will enhance your sexual pleasure as well as allowing you to ejaculate normally. All will become clear as you read the website!

You might be wondering at this point whether your relationship has anything to do with delayed ejaculation. The answer in so many cases is a resounding "yes". Men who have delayed ejaculation often find that it only happens with their partner and not with other women. I'm not suggesting you have an affair, but you may already know that you can ejaculate more easily with other women. (This is not always true. In either case, you can stop delayed ejaculation easily!)

There are many ways in which a relationship - either with one woman, or with all women - can provoke delayed ejaculation, and it's sometimes hard to separate cause and effect. For example, do you lack arousal during sex because you don't actually feel attracted to your partner? Or is a lack of sexual attraction the consequence of a poor sexual relationship? All these emotional and relationship issues, and many more, are explored on the website. There are many ways you can make your relationship more rewarding and deeper without threatening its stability: it's all about becoming more intimate and understanding of each other (and yourself), and especially of your sexual desires and drives, so that sex becomes a much more connected and intimate process. Once you've overcome that barrier, arousal and excitement develop much more easily, and you'll find that ejaculation follows naturally as part of the process of sexual intercourse.

You may be very concerned that none of this information seems to fit for you. Well, there isn't enough space here to describe all the causes and effects of delayed ejaculation (for example, some prescription medications can cause delayed ejaculation), but we go into much greater detail inside the members' area. I haven't yet come across a case of delayed ejaculation that I couldn't explain or help one way or another! And I'm so sure of this that if you happen to disagree, you can have your subscription refunded without question!

Most men I've met with delayed ejaculation are extremely concerned that their lover isn't getting the pleasure she deserves during sex. You may work very hard during sex and yet it doesn't seem to work out.....fortunately, this hard work will make you a superb lover when you've cured the delayed ejaculation. One of the greatest pleasures of sex is making sure that your partner is happy, and once you can depend on your own orgasm and ejaculation taking place at the moment you choose during sex, when you can be certain you're going to ejaculate and stop worrying about it, then you can devote more time and attention to your partner's needs in a relaxed and intimate way. Needless to say, that makes sex a lot better for both of you!

And because delayed ejaculation means men suffer a lot of negative emotions including anxiety, feelings of failure, shame, guilt, anger and embarrassment, I explain exactly why these occur and show you how you can completely eliminate all the negative emotions around delayed ejaculation, and when you do so, also restore your relationship to full emotional health!

It's no surprise that men tend to keep the fact that they have delayed ejaculation to themselves or that they don't seek help for it. Which is why this website is so valuable - it provides all the help you need to overcome delayed ejaculation! It explains all the causes of delayed ejaculation in detail and reveals exactly how you can beat it once and for all. This means in only a few weeks you can become fully orgasmic and able to ejaculate easily when you make love!

This website is the only place where you can discover detailed information about the causes of delayed ejaculation, and also find out all about how you can beat it at home, with an effective, fast acting treatment program, complete with lots of practical, problem-solving solutions designed exclusively for men who have difficulty achieving  orgasm or ejaculating during sex (and/or masturbation).

Easy, Controlled Ejaculation During Sex Is Yours For The Taking!

If you want normal sex, this is the best way to get it: in only a few weeks, you'll be fully orgasmic and able to ejaculate whenever you like during sex. You'll enjoy sex that lasts for just as long or short a time as you wish, without stress or strain, without worrying about whether or not you'll be able to come,  and you'll be able to fully satisfy your partner while enjoying your own orgasm and ejaculation. And that's true no matter how long it currently takes you to get to orgasm - and better still, it's true even if you never ejaculate at all at the moment!

By the way, this treatment program works for men who have difficulty reaching orgasm during masturbation too....it's designed for sexual success, and it achieves it, with hundreds of satisfied men who've all discovered a sexual capacity for orgasm and ejaculation they never expected to enjoy.

If you have any negative feelings about yourself or your ability as a lover, this program will give you a real sense of achievement and satisfaction as a sexually skilled man, a lover who'll be adored and admired by women.....and the improvement in your relationship with your partner will be astonishing - because a happy sex life where both partners get maximum sexual fulfillment from each other is at the root of all successful relationships!

What Is Normal Ejaculation?

It depends what you want! But the whole point of this program is that you can choose how you enjoy intercourse. You can enjoy sex that lasts for five minutes, ten minutes or longer - you'll have complete control over your ejaculation, and you can enjoy sex for just as long or short a time as you and your partner wish!

The fact is that sex shouldn't cause you to struggle to reach orgasm and ejaculate. This program will help you overcome that challenge. You'll start by enjoying foreplay and becoming aroused. You might like to give your partner an orgasm with either your hands or with oral sex. You can then move on to the pleasures of intercourse, enjoying relaxed and highly pleasurable vaginal thrusting until your partner reaches orgasm, or until you decide to enjoy your own ejaculation. Your partner may have another orgasm, or not, depending on what you decide to do. In both cases, the sheer pleasure of your own orgasm will seem like a totally different experience to the way it was in the past.

And this is all achieved by retraining your body to become more sexually aroused, more quickly, and showing you how to let go of inhibitions and blocks to orgasm and ejaculation. The program also explains how to be sure your partner has had what she wants from sex as well! In short, the whole program is geared to one objective only - to overcome delayed ejaculation so you and your partner get great sex!

Sex with easy orgasms and powerful ejaculation under your control is an amazing experience. When you can reach orgasm easily, you can relax into the whole sexual experience, knowing you have complete power and total control over your sexual responses - and the sexual pleasure that you give to your partner! Just imagine, never having to worry about delayed ejaculation any more!

You can stop delayed ejaculation any time you want to. And though that may seem a tall order, especially if you're struggling to get anywhere near ejaculation right now, the proof of this program's effectiveness is the 96% success rate achieved by men using this program!

Ejaculate During Sex With This Effective Cure For Delayed Ejaculation!

I know you can do this because over the last ten years hundreds of men have beaten their delayed ejaculation using this program. And it's easy! Sure, it needs some time commitment - about forty minutes, three or four times a week, for about six weeks. But in case you're wondering if there's an easier way, let me tell you about other things you might see touted as cures for delayed ejaculation:

• you won't overcome delayed ejaculation or get the ability to ejaculate normally by means of hypnosis (although it can help you reduce anxiety during sex).
• herbal potions do not work with delayed ejaculation - Yohimbine, for example, just increases your anxiety and ups your heart rate, as well as making you sweat and giving you a headache.
• you won't cure delayed ejaculation by using more force during sex with harder or faster thrusts - more effort won't help!
• getting another partner might or might not be the answer - but why not develop the skill and ability to make love to all your partners, present and future?
• you don't have to focus on giving pleasure to your partner at the expense of your own pleasure...you can both get maximum sexual pleasure.
• and therapy alone won't work, even if it helps to reduce feelings of anger or anxiety, resentment or guilt. You need all the techniques on this website - which includes information on how to deal with the emotional and relationship issues around delayed ejaculation!

With the help of the program on this website you'll soon have control over your ejaculatory responses and sexual arousal. You'll soon find that the time before you ejaculate is less; you'll find that you actually enjoy vaginal thrusting, knowing that you will be able to ejaculate inside your partner! Whenever you desire, just by increasing the speed and force of your penile thrusts slightly, you'll rapidly bring yourself to an exciting and satisfying orgasm and ejaculation.

What You Get For Your Membership!

A powerful cure for delayed ejaculation is explained in complete detail on this website, using only straightforward language, and providing you with simple, clear, and easy to use instructions. Your membership gives you access to the site for one year, including any and all updates we may add in the future.

I show you every step of the treatment, and explain everything you need to know to get  complete control and choice over your ejaculation. I also provide continuous support and advice by email. Indeed, we can talk or connect by email if you ever need something explained or clarified. Just email me, Rod Phillips, on this address:
rod"at"delayed-ejaculation.com (You'll need to replace "at" with @ to use the email address. The email is printed like that to stop spammers wasting our time with hundreds of spam emails every day. That way, we make sure we see all your emails! )

And because I realize you may have tried many approaches, you may be a bit doubtful about whether this one will work or not. So I'd like to offer you a "no questions asked" money back guarantee: if you try this program and find it isn't for you, after three months, contact either me or the customer service agents at my credit card billing company CCBIll.com and you can have a 100% no-quibble refund instantly. That way, trying this program is a "no-risk" option for you!

You Can Enjoy Superb Sex Every Time!

You can build on your ejaculatory control so you both enjoy simultaneous orgasms during sex. When you make love, your level of sexual arousal will increase until you're both at the brink of orgasm. But with your newly developed ejaculatory control, you can hold off your own orgasm until your partner tips over into her orgasm, at which point you can relax and let go, so you enjoy a simultaneous climax......with complete control - and absolute pleasure!

If you have any questions or issues you need support with, just contact me, Rod Phillips, by email, as many times as you need! (Email me on   rod"at"delayed-ejaculation.com -  but replace "at" with @ to use the address).